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多事之春

多事之春,希望之春!

這個春天將會是一個充滿挑戰的一個春天。

首先有一位家人現正處於健康的緊張期。希望各位讀者能為我們祈禱,祝願他能早日邁向轉機,並希望身邊的家人,尤其是 may may 和 媽咪能保重身體,及能多向好那方面去想。願主垂鑑我的意願。

另外,我們的 Jac Jac 也差不多是時候來到了。首先希望他媽媽,即是我太太,能儘量放鬆心情去迎接 BB 的來臨。我知道現在是很難做到的,所以更要常常去 remind 自己。而且她的工作也有很大壓力,所以會很辛苦。做媽媽真的很偉大啊!

當然也希望 BB Jac Jac 能肥肥白白,聽教聽話,不用我們操心太多。更要感謝我媽媽將會付出的時間和精力去幫助我們日常去照顧 Jac Jac。她能教養得出我兩兄弟這麼好的孩子(哈哈!),我相信她也會搞得掂我們的兒子。希望他們兩Ma孫會相處愉快!

我們為了迎接 Jac Jac,故會搬屋,並希望能儘快將物業放出。這兩件事都是大事件。搬屋又要執箱又要拆箱,太太更要避席。當然就算她不避席也不可幫手,但她常常有很多好 ideas,她不在的話便麻煩一些。而賣樓又不是話賣就賣得出,所以也很煩惱!

我學校方面也慢慢上軌道,即是說慢慢多野做。又要教書又要備課又要和同學交流但又要計劃新課程,真是可以忙得很。同時我亦仍然希盼可以報讀到今年度的博士課程,which is 三星期後截止。似乎我真的要好好 plan plan 怎樣善用自己的時間及開始要睡少些了!

我想我暫時也沒有其他的 plan or wish 了。也夠了吧!本來仲話要減肥,但可能現在唔減都瘦了(望就係咁望啦!哈哈)。

整個 blog 我打得最多的字是「希望」。 希望萬事都能如我所望吧!

這是一個多事之春也是一個希望之春。願主垂鑑我們的意願。

New Project(s)

I need to claim down.

I am starting 5 projects in one go recently. Firstly, as I said in my previous post, I am going to apply PhD by next January. So I need to run a project to do that. I call it Project A. Starting from now, finishing by, well, 5 years later perhaps. Very discouraging. Perhaps I should state that I would finish Phase 1 of Project A by April next year (when I know if I got accepted or not).

Secondly, as a preparation job of the Project A, I would like to (or have to) hop to a job which is more academic related, by the end of this year, and I call it Project B. I need Project B because I need to have more free time and free mind to prepare my research proposal, as well as to have a more stable and focus brain so that I could concentrate in Project A.

Thirdly, two of our buddies, Hazel and Hugo, are coming to meet us soon. The planned schedule is also next April, and so I have to start my Project C to welcome them. It would be a big project as many things in our daily lives have to be adjusted, including some of my habits.

As a consequence of Project C, I need to consider to make sure that we could stay in this house within next year, and then could move to a new place by the end of next year. In between I have to adjust the rental agreement of the landlord, and at the same time I have to take back our apartment from “Jenny” and sell it out. It requires quite a lot of interrelated tasks and $$. This is Project D.

Also as a consequence of Project C, we would consider to say goodbye to Pinky and say hello to our new friend Silvery (Project E) It should be a short project due to the time constraint, but would involve some licensing issues, insurance issues and finance issues. We need to finish this by early Sept. Time is pressing.

I am not a well organized person, so I need to claim down and write down all the tasks step by step so that I could concurrently manage these 5 projects smoothly but efficiently.

God bless us.

衰人

很久沒有試過這樣討厭一個人。討厭一個人是要很浪廢氣力的,又會影響情緒,非常不值。我不知道自己算不算是一個弱者,但我肯定的是我不喜歡(或不善於)面對爭執和衝突。我喜歡和諧及平衡;我覺得用和諧的方法來達到的結果才會恆久。但面對一個野蠻人,有時太溫和的方法真的會使自己很被動和不利。但我又不想為他動氣,所以我決定在這裡 (Blog) 解決。

死肥仔,如果你不想生仔,就祝你生仔冇XX。如果你想生仔,就祝你冇仔生。

好無聊。但開心晒。

年紀輕的讚賞和謬誤

常常聽說別人說我”很年輕”, 或”太年輕”。 一向以來我也誤以為我的樣子真的很年輕,但近年發現似乎這並不是他們背後的意思(也應該很明顯不是吧?)。 他們好像是說比對起我的職位和經驗,我似乎算是比其他同業年輕很多。

是嗎? 我也不清楚,反正聽到這些話時也應該感到開心吧? 因為邏輯上似乎也應算是一個成就。 但常常這樣想的話,自已給自己的壓力會很大,因為一向也覺得自己是走在其他人的前頭,若有任何差池墜後了給這世界趕上,挫敗感會很大。

Roundabouts (Comment)

That is my problem too…the problem is not just picking up an exit….the problem is we are afraid of picking a wrong exit which could lead to a dead end. However, I think that life is full of advantures. Somtime, you can’t count and calculate too much. Just like the game theory you always methioned….somtimes, it is good to close your eyes, listen to your heart and then take a deep breath and kick off your first step…….you will never know until you take the first step. Also, road is walked out by people =) Let us try it out! just don’t think too much …..one can never gain and grow until we learn how to hands-off at the right moment….let go those things which are not in our wish list….in some senses, those could be obstabcles to our destiny ~.*